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Jan 23 2010

Genital Herpes and Toilet Seats

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By CD Mohatta

Does genital herpes spread through using same toilet seat? I have seen this question being asked repeatedly at various places on the Internet. Everybody is worried about getting infected with genital herpes and this fear makes people think of different ways in which they believe that they may get infected by herpes. The fear of sharing toilet seat and getting herpes originates similarly. The truth is that it is extremely difficult, rather nearly impossible to get genital herpes by sharing the same toilet seat. The virus does not survive outside body and dies quickly. The virus therefore cannot be spread by such means as sharing the same towel or the same toilet seat.

How the virus spreads-

Genital herpes is transmitted by sexual contact. If you come in sexual contact with an infected person you may get herpes. If the affected person has active lesions the chances of getting herpes increase. But many people shed the virus even if they show no outward sign of lesions. They also spread herpes. Herpes virus enters our body through mucous membrane or a cut in the skin or. The inside of mouth, inner genitals, anus, are all covered with mucous membrane.

Any activity that brings the live virus in other’s body in touch with your body may transmit herpes. In case of toilet seats and towels the virus may get transferred to them but does not remain alive. Therefore such virus is not dangerous. The virus remains alive in the body and therefore transmission from body to body causes herpes. If another object comes in-between the virus does not get transmitted, because it dies.

Additional Reading:

Stop Herpes Now and From Coming Back For Good by Dr David Hoggs

Cold Sore Freedom in 3 days by Grace Melgarejo

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Mar 07 2009

Telling Your Partner You Have Herpes

Being diagnosed with Herpes is often a monumental occasion in a person’s life. They often feel embarrassed and ashamed and do not typically know how to emotionally process the test results. This is because unlike most sexually transmitted diseases, Herpes does not have a cure. This leaves many of the infected feeling like their sex life will forever be tainted and that they may never find a sexual partner who is willing to risk infection by engaging in sexual intercourse with them. However, the best way to tell your partner that you have Herpes is to BE UPFRONT AND HONEST. The more you lie to your partner, the more you jeopardize their health and yours.

Unfortunately, many of those infected with Herpes simply choose to ignore the problem and gamble with the health of their current and future sexual partners. This option is extremely irresponsible, as it puts the health of others at risk.

The reality is that more people than you may think are infected with Herpes. According to the Center for Disease Control, CDC, more than 45 million people ages 12 and older have genital Herpes, the most serious type of Herpes. If you are currently infected with Herpes, you need to face facts. You need to understand, that while there is no cure for Herpes, there are ways to help surpass the outbreaks, which in turn will help decrease the chances that you will transmit the disease to your partner.

The first step in suppressing Herpes is to improve your lifestyle. This means decreasing the consumption of harmful vices such as alcohol and tobacco, participating in regular exercise and improving your overall diet. It is also wise to consider taking safe, all-natural supplements. Choosing a healthier lifestyle is the best way to help boost your immune system. The healthier your immune system is, the less likely you are to have future outbreaks. For more information regarding all-natural Herpes supplements.

Remember, the best way to deal with Herpes is to attack the disease head on. Do not let this common, yet often ignored, virus control your life or affect your future happiness. There are millions of others out there living with the disease so there is no need to feel embarrassed. Be honest with not only with yourself, but also with your current or future partners.

You should also insist on safe/safer sex precautions, and be sure to avoid sexual contact when you are having an outbreak as you are more likely to transmit the disease during an outbreak than during times of suppression. Do not Herpes take over your life, adopt a healthier lifestyle and research the many benefits of Herpes supplements such as Viralprin™.

For more information regarding using a Herpes supplement, such as Viralprin, once you tell your partner you have Herpes, please visit Viralprin.com

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Additional Reading:

Stop Herpes Now and From Coming Back For Good by Dr David Hoggs

Positive SingleSupport site for herpes member.

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Feb 21 2009

Genital Herpes – Do You Get It If Your Partner Has Cold Sores?

Genital herpes affects many of us. All of us want to protect ourselves. The problem is the anxiety about getting genital herpes if the partner shows no signs, but is a carrier? What if he/she had contacted cold sores in the childhood? Will you get genital herpes? Let us find out.

Genital herpes- basics

Here are few basics about genital herpes. It can be caused by virus type 1 that causes cold sores. Most of the carriers are in a phase when they show no outward sign but shed the virus (asymptomatic phase). After contacting herpes, you will become infected but may show no symptoms for years. Unfortunately you may suspect a different partner when you get the eruption. The earlier one that gave you herpes is only in the memory. Many of us believe that genital herpes is only caused by virus type2. This is not true. Let me put it like this. If you have genital herpes, it is difficult for your partner to get cold sores. But if you have cold sores, your partner can easily get genital herpes.

Genital herpes- about the habit of the virus

The herpes virus behaves in a typical manner. as soon as you contact herpes, the virus begins multiplying. You may get a severe eruption of herpes or a very mild. After treatment the virus goes to sleep. Because of certain reasons, the virus goes back to the skin. The trigger may be- stress, illness, lowered immunity etc. After going back to the skin, the virus erupts again and shows herpes on the skin. It gets treated again and goes back to sleep to return after some time.

Even if your partner shows no signs of herpes, if he/she is an active carrier of cold sores or virus type2, you may get infected. Only screening will tell you about the status of your partner. Please protect yourself from genital herpes.

TThis article is only for informative purposes. This article is not intended to be a medical advise and it is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Please consult your doctor for your medical concerns. Please follow any tip given in this article only after consulting your doctor. The author is not liable for any outcome or damage resulting from information obtained from this article.

CD Mohatta

This article is only for informative purposes. This article is not intended to be a medical advise and it is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Please consult your doctor for your medical concerns. Please follow any tip given in this article only after consulting your doctor. The author is not liable for any outcome or damage resulting from information obtained from this article.

DoctorGoodSkin.com is an online skin care guide where you can find a lot of information, articles and tips about skin diseases and conditions, skin treatments and procedures, skin care, skin care products, etc. You will also find information about hair and nails. A unique feature of this portal is the skin and health quizzes, by which you can test your knowledge about various skin, hair and nail conditions. The most popular topics on the site include acne, hair removal, skin cancers, sweating, surgical procedures, aging, dandruff, etc.

Additional Reading:

Cold Sore Freedom in 3 days by Grace Melgarejo

Stop Herpes Now and From Coming Back For Good by Dr David Hoggs

Positive SingleSupport site for herpes members.

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Jan 28 2009

Genital Herpes – Something Everybody Must Know

1. Genital herpes and oral sex-

If your partner has cold sores (carrier of virus type1), he/she can pass HSV1 to you by performing oral sex on you. You will contract Genital herpes.

2. Genital herpes is not life destroying-

Genital herpes is not life destroying. A large population is living with genital herpes without any serious problem. Control your triggers and outbreaks of herpes. A person suffering from genital herpes is more susceptible to get HIV. Maintain a healthy life style and you can live life normally.

3. Genital herpes cannot be transmitted through toilet seat-

The herpes virus cannot live long on dead surfaces such as toilet seats, towels, etc. It is rare to contact herpes from these objects.

4. Silent transmission-

An affected person, who does not have any signs of active sores, can also pass on the virus. That is called asymptomatic shedding of virus. So if your partner is suffering from genital herpes, you may also get it even if your partner shows no active outbreaks.

5. You may get the indication of herpes outbreak-

Before any herpes outbreak there is a period called prodrome. During this period you may get sensations such as- tingling, itching or some pain. That indicates that the genital herpes will break out in a day or two. Genital herpes can also spread easily during this prodrome period.

6. Prevention-

The best safeguard for genital herpes is to have a single partner who is free of herpes. If not, use of latex condoms and minimizing partners may reduce the risk.

7. Pregnancy & genital herpes-

A woman who is having active sores in or near vagina or having her first outbreak of genital herpes can pass on the disease to her newborn. In such cases herpes is controlled with anti-viral medications and cesarean delivery is performed to protect the new born from contacting herpes.

8. Reducing the spread of virus-

Anti viral therapy reduces the shedding of herpes virus considerably.

9. Cure-

There is no cure for genital herpes. The virus remains in the body for life. You should get treated whenever you get active sores (ulcers) to reduce the intensity and period of the outbreak.

10. Recurring episodes-

Some people get active genital herpes only once, while others may have several recurrences through their lifetime.

11. Affected Areas-

In men, the affected areas of genital herpes include- urethra, penis, scrotum, anus and buttocks. In women, the herpes appears on external genitals, vagina, cervix, buttocks and anus.

12. Transmission-

Genital herpes commonly gets transferred through skin cuts or mucous membranes. Oral cavity, vagina, anus and glans penis are all covered with mucous membrane.

13. Testing-

Herpes is tested with viral culture during active outbreaks. During dormancy (no visible signs), a blood test is performed. These tests are not very accurate and may need to be repeated.

14. Many people do not know that they have Genital herpes-

Many people who have genital herpes may not show any symptoms or the symptoms may be so insignificant that they ignore them.

CD Mohatta

This article is only for informative purposes. This article is not intended to be a medical advise and it is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Please consult your doctor for your medical concerns. Please follow any tip given in this article only after consulting your doctor. The author is not liable for any outcome or damage resulting from information obtained from this article.

DoctorGoodSkin.com is a popular skin care guide where you can find a lot of information, articles and tips about STDs, skin diseases and conditions, skin treatments and procedures, skin care, skin care products, etc. You will also find information about hair and nails. You can try out some of the skin and health quizzes, to test your knowledge about various skin, hair and nail conditions. Other popular topics on the site include eczema, psoriasis, dermabrasion, hair loss, liposuction, cosmetic, sun damage, chemical peeling, etc. To learn more about Genital Herpes visit doctorgoodskin.com

Additional Reading:

Stop Herpes Now and From Coming Back For Good by Dr David Hoggs

Positive SingleSupport site for herpes member.

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Sep 08 2008

Dating Someone With Herpes Anywhere – Genital Herpes and Oral Sex

Published by admin under Living With STD, Safe Sex

Can you get genital herpes from a sexual partner with a cold sore on their mouth? Yes indeed. Although most cold sores on the face and mouth are caused by theHSV1 virus and genital herpes is generally cause by HSV2 virus, both these herpes viruses can occur in other places.

If you or your partner have an active cold sore on your mouth while indulging in oral sex, you can potentially give your partner genital herpes. Although the virus may be slightly different, the outcome will still be the same. Painful sores on the genitals that will flare up from time to time.

The herpes virus is infectious when active. Those painful little lesions are best kept away from others until the sores are healed over with new skin. Using the latest herpes treatments will shorten the length of time your cold sore will be on your face.

Living with herpes of any nature can be made much simpler and less painful with the latest medications. At the very first tingle, or pain sensation, start your medication or topical cream straight away. Often by doing this you can prevent a full blown outbreak. At the very least you will minimize the length and severity of the outbreak.

At the slightest tingle anywhere, it is good practice to keep that part of your body away from skin contact with anyone else. Wash your hands thoroughly after applying any creams or lotions.

There are people out there who will tell you that they always kiss their boyfriend or girlfriend when they have cold sores and the other one has never caught it. These people have some sort of resistance and are the fortunate minority.

Genital herpes (HSV2) and cold sores on the mouth (oral herpes or HSV1) can both occur on other parts of your body. Care should be taken when you are dating someone with oral herpes with an active outbreak on the mouth to minimize the risk of infecting the other’s genitals.

Billy Baker ~  Copyright Billy Baker, who has provided more in-depth information on herpes dating here. Or go straight to this brief review of a special dating with herpes site.

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Sep 01 2008

Herpes Support Groups

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There are herpes support group’s found in certain states in America. There are some herpes support groups in other countries as well. Herpes support groups are very good sources of information and assistance to infected patients. These support groups help a member feel he is not alone in his battle with the disease.

Herpes support groups are helpful both to those who have just been diagnosed with the disease and to long-term herpes patients. Herpes support groups provide a safe and comfortable environment where participants can share their personal experiences about the symptoms and treatment of their oral and/or genital herpes. They get to discuss the severity and duration of their outbreaks, what they do to relieve them of the pain and discomfort and the negative side effects of their therapy. They also get to talk about their fears and how they feel about their condition freely without fear of being judged and condemned. Moreover, they get to contribute advice to fellow members on how to deal with the disease. A really important factor in these herpes support groups is confidentiality as people with herpes are afraid of the social stigma because many in the community look down, judge and even alienate them.

Herpes support groups also include conferring with physicians so they get accurate information about the symptoms, treatment and prognosis of herpes simplex. The doctor’s may convene lectures and open forums where members can find answers to their queries.

Some herpes support groups meet personally on a regular basis while some herpes support groups just confer online. The group’s website usually contains medical literature on the virus or have updates on new medications. Chat forums and message boards are also easily accessed. Members of the herpes support group can join the discussion with the other members and/or doctors.

Herpes provides detailed information on Genital Herpes, Herpes, Herpes And Pregnancy, Herpes Cure and more. Herpes is affiliated with Hepatitis C Treatments.

By Kent Pinkerton

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Aug 01 2008

How To Re-Enter The Dating Scene After You Had Genital Herpes

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This is a common scenario, “I found out I had genital herpes in January. My boyfriend got a blood test and he tested negative. Recently, we broke up . I’m sure I’m not ready to start dating again yet, but when I am I’m not sure how to go about it. I know I have to tell my partners and I will continue to be careful. Can I date those who don’t have herpes? Will they be willing to date me?”

Many people with herpes have similar experience at the beginning. The following information shows you how you can unlock your own natural confidence and strength so you feel really comfortable giving ‘The Talk’. Now that you know you have genital herpes, you’re out of the dating game, right? Absolutely not. There’s no reason to stop looking for love and fun.

Genital herpes doesn’t detract from your many desirable qualities, which have drawn people to you in the past and will continue to make you a great catch.

Broaching the Topic of Genital Herpes

The first date after your diagnosis may seem a little strange, however. If you hope to be sexually intimate with your date at some point, you may feel like you’re keeping a nasty secret. If you are one to be candid with people, you’ll want to blurt it out. Don’t. There are some things you should reveal about yourself right away – for example, that you’re married, or that you’re just in town for the week – but some things are better left for the appropriate moment.

It’s up to you to decide the right time to tell your date that you have genital herpes. Follow two rules: First, don’t wait until after having sex. Second, don’t wait until you’re just about to have sex — in which case the attraction may be too strong for either of you to think rationally and act responsibly.

If in the past you tended to start a new relationship with sex, you now might want to change your approach. It might be better to break the news about your herpes to someone who has already grown attached to you. Kissing, cuddling, and fondling are safe, so you don’t have to tell before you do that. But use your best judgment as to how physically intimate you want to get before telling. One thing could lead to another, and you might find yourself in an awkward situation.

Dealing With Rejection Anyone who dates should be prepared for rejection. The person you’re seeing may beat a hasty retreat when he or she finds out about your genital herpes. If you get the “I just want to be friends” talk after telling your sweetheart you have herpes, consider this: He or she may have already been looking for a way out, and herpes was as good an excuse as any. What’s more, anyone who disdains you or humiliates you for having herpes was never worth your while.

Keep dating, and you will find someone who wants to be with you regardless of your herpes status. There are certainly some who wouldn’t mind keeping the intimacy level just short of doing things that could transmit the virus. And of those people, it’s likely that at least one will come around, and say, “Hey, I understand there’s a risk, but I’m crazy about you, so I’m willing to take it.”

Depending on your dating style, you might date people with herpes, if you want to avoid having to discuss it. Herpes doesn’t define you, but judgmental people will make judgmental decisions.On the herpes dating sites, you do not worry about being rejected or discriminated, but often find understanding and comforting. Check reviews of the top Herpes Dating Sites, see which Online Dating Site is best for you.

By David H Smith David H Smith is a life coach. He has created Herpes Dating Help as a uniquely practical life coaching service, introducing you to those changes you can make that will help you to feel relaxed about herpes, maintain and grow your self confidence.

Additional Reading:

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Jun 12 2008

Is this the Mountain you got to climb?

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When I saw this cartoon, it reminded me of the Chinese tale of a man people named him “Stupid Man”. His house faced a big mountain and to walk to the nearest civilization, he had to make a detour. So he made a decision to remove the big mountain by removing stones, a little every day. People who came to know about his uphill endeavour all laughed and the tale of “The Stupid Man Moving the Mountain” was born.

What is seeming impossible is not possible. It is just daunting and tough. When going gets tough, the tough gets going. Sometimes, the cheese is just around the corner, it’s just that we can’t see it. Having herpes is tough but it is not the end of the world. Excel in your job, revel in making new friends, and do the things you usually do or haven’t try. Life doesn’t end with herpes. Just ask those folks at positive singles.

cartoon from www.weblogcartoons.com

Dave Walker. Find more cartoons you can freely re-use on your blog at We Blog Cartoons.

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Jun 08 2008

Genital Herpes – Do You Get It If Your Partner Has Cold Sores?

Genital herpes affects many of us. All of us want to protect ourselves. The problem is the anxiety about getting genital herpes if the partner shows no signs, but is a carrier? What if he/she had contacted cold sores in the childhood? Will you get genital herpes? Let us find out.

Genital herpes- basics

Here are few basics about genital herpes. It can be caused by virus type 1 that causes cold sores. Most of the carriers are in a phase when they show no outward sign but shed the virus (asymptomatic phase). After contacting herpes, you will become infected but may show no symptoms for years. Unfortunately you may suspect a different partner when you get the eruption. The earlier one that gave you herpes is only in the memory. Many of us believe that genital herpes is only caused by virus type2. This is not true. Let me put it like this. If you have genital herpes, it is difficult for your partner to get cold sores. But if you have cold sores, your partner can easily get genital herpes.

Genital herpes- about the habit of the virus

The herpes virus behaves in a typical manner. as soon as you contact herpes, the virus begins multiplying. You may get a severe eruption of herpes or a very mild. After treatment the virus goes to sleep. Because of certain reasons, the virus goes back to the skin. The trigger may be- stress, illness, lowered immunity etc. After going back to the skin, the virus erupts again and shows herpes on the skin. It gets treated again and goes back to sleep to return after some time.

Even if your partner shows no signs of herpes, if he/she is an active carrier of cold sores or virus type2, you may get infected. Only screening will tell you about the status of your partner. Please protect yourself from genital herpes. To know more about herpes- click here- Herpes Simplex This article is only for informative purposes.

This article is not intended to be a medical advise and it is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Please consult your doctor for your medical concerns. Please follow any tip given in this article only after consulting your doctor. The author is not liable for any outcome or damage resulting from information obtained from this article.

by: DC Mohatta

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Jun 01 2008

Dating with Herpes

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1 in 5 men and 1 in 4 women are living with herpes. Approximately 50 million Americans have been infected with genital herpes? Do not despair. You are not alone. Herpes treatment, herpes research and many herpes dating services link here are out there to assist you to have a happy and healthy love life.

Dating CouplesDating with Herpes …

All potential partners must be informed of your genital herpes diagnosis prior to any sexual intimacy. Even the use of a condom does not prevent the spread of disease because a condom may cover not all sores. It is possible for the virus to become active and be transmitted to a sexual partner even when the skin appears completely normal.

How to protect your partner when you have herpes:

1: no sex while you have an outbreak or if you think you are about to have an outbreak. Wait until sores are completely healed before resuming sexual activity.

2: always use a latex condom.

3: use Valtrex daily to minimize the risk of spread.

Revealing your News…It is very important to have honest and open communication with potential sexual partners. Having to tell someone you have genital herpes can be an extremely embarrassing and worrying situation. You need to be able to talk to each other, as they too could be carrying a STD as well.

1: Be knowledgeable… You should be positive about your disease. Your life will go on and you are hoping for support and acceptance. Tell them how common it is, the herpes treatments and the precautions.

2: Select the right time. You should let the relationship develop a little so that you will be able to be comfortable about being honest. Look forLook for an opportunity for the conversation to come up. This chat should definitely happen before you become physically intimate or too hot and heavy.

3: Select a private relaxed place for the talk to take place.

4: Some people need time to digest this sort of news. Give the other person a bit of space if they need it. They might want to do their own research or see their medical practitioner. They may also be among the other 50 million Americans who are already infected.

Herpes Dating Services.

Some singles with herpes find it easier to date exclusively other singles living with herpes. Certainly, the potential for embarrassment and possible rejection and guilt can be avoided in this scenario. If this sounds more like you, there are many herpes online dating sites, herpes personals and even STD singles sites and services that you can join.

Dating with herpes and living with herpes is not the end of the world. . There is a lot happening in herpes research, herpes treatment and herpes prevention. You are among 50 million other Americans who also have the herpes infection Get yourself clued-up and healthy and get out there and find a partner.

Good Luck.

by Coco Swan.

Copyright 2007 Author Coco Swan

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