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Nov 25 2009

Can You Get Genital Herpes If You Wear a Condom and the Person Has No Outbreaks?

If you are sexually intimate with a person who has herpes simplex II, or genital herpes there are a few things that you should know about herpes transmission.

The herpes simplex viruses are transmitted through skin to skin contact. It is not a blood borne virus, it lays dormant in the nervous system, and when it is triggered it rises to the surface. This is known as a herpes outbreak. Genital herpes outbreaks can look like anything from puss filled sores, to small open wounds. They can occur inside the vagina, on the scrotum, pelvis, the inner thigh, buttocks or lower back. Herpes sores can be big enough to see visibly, but they can also be be small as a pin point and barely noticeable to the human eye.

Now that you understand what a genital herpes outbreak is and the ways it can appear – you should realize that the answer to your question is simply yes – you can still get herpes even if you wear a condom and the person has no visible signs of an outbreak.

If you are in a relationship with a person who has genital herpes and are considering being sexually intimate with them, it is important for you to have a honest discussion about what types of medications they take. While condoms can reduce your risk, it is not a fool proof method of prevention. In order to protect yourself, your partner should commit to taking daily suppressive therapy like Valtrex. Studies have shown that using condoms combined with daily suppressive therapy will reduce your risk to under two to five percent.

Savannah Francis is the editor of YouGotHerpes.com, you can visit her site for more information on genital herpes transmission and oral herpes transmission.

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Stop Herpes Now and From Coming Back For Good by Dr David Hoggs

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Mar 07 2009

Telling Your Partner You Have Herpes

Being diagnosed with Herpes is often a monumental occasion in a person’s life. They often feel embarrassed and ashamed and do not typically know how to emotionally process the test results. This is because unlike most sexually transmitted diseases, Herpes does not have a cure. This leaves many of the infected feeling like their sex life will forever be tainted and that they may never find a sexual partner who is willing to risk infection by engaging in sexual intercourse with them. However, the best way to tell your partner that you have Herpes is to BE UPFRONT AND HONEST. The more you lie to your partner, the more you jeopardize their health and yours.

Unfortunately, many of those infected with Herpes simply choose to ignore the problem and gamble with the health of their current and future sexual partners. This option is extremely irresponsible, as it puts the health of others at risk.

The reality is that more people than you may think are infected with Herpes. According to the Center for Disease Control, CDC, more than 45 million people ages 12 and older have genital Herpes, the most serious type of Herpes. If you are currently infected with Herpes, you need to face facts. You need to understand, that while there is no cure for Herpes, there are ways to help surpass the outbreaks, which in turn will help decrease the chances that you will transmit the disease to your partner.

The first step in suppressing Herpes is to improve your lifestyle. This means decreasing the consumption of harmful vices such as alcohol and tobacco, participating in regular exercise and improving your overall diet. It is also wise to consider taking safe, all-natural supplements. Choosing a healthier lifestyle is the best way to help boost your immune system. The healthier your immune system is, the less likely you are to have future outbreaks. For more information regarding all-natural Herpes supplements.

Remember, the best way to deal with Herpes is to attack the disease head on. Do not let this common, yet often ignored, virus control your life or affect your future happiness. There are millions of others out there living with the disease so there is no need to feel embarrassed. Be honest with not only with yourself, but also with your current or future partners.

You should also insist on safe/safer sex precautions, and be sure to avoid sexual contact when you are having an outbreak as you are more likely to transmit the disease during an outbreak than during times of suppression. Do not Herpes take over your life, adopt a healthier lifestyle and research the many benefits of Herpes supplements such as Viralprin™.

For more information regarding using a Herpes supplement, such as Viralprin, once you tell your partner you have Herpes, please visit Viralprin.com

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Feb 21 2009

Genital Herpes – Do You Get It If Your Partner Has Cold Sores?

Genital herpes affects many of us. All of us want to protect ourselves. The problem is the anxiety about getting genital herpes if the partner shows no signs, but is a carrier? What if he/she had contacted cold sores in the childhood? Will you get genital herpes? Let us find out.

Genital herpes- basics

Here are few basics about genital herpes. It can be caused by virus type 1 that causes cold sores. Most of the carriers are in a phase when they show no outward sign but shed the virus (asymptomatic phase). After contacting herpes, you will become infected but may show no symptoms for years. Unfortunately you may suspect a different partner when you get the eruption. The earlier one that gave you herpes is only in the memory. Many of us believe that genital herpes is only caused by virus type2. This is not true. Let me put it like this. If you have genital herpes, it is difficult for your partner to get cold sores. But if you have cold sores, your partner can easily get genital herpes.

Genital herpes- about the habit of the virus

The herpes virus behaves in a typical manner. as soon as you contact herpes, the virus begins multiplying. You may get a severe eruption of herpes or a very mild. After treatment the virus goes to sleep. Because of certain reasons, the virus goes back to the skin. The trigger may be- stress, illness, lowered immunity etc. After going back to the skin, the virus erupts again and shows herpes on the skin. It gets treated again and goes back to sleep to return after some time.

Even if your partner shows no signs of herpes, if he/she is an active carrier of cold sores or virus type2, you may get infected. Only screening will tell you about the status of your partner. Please protect yourself from genital herpes.

TThis article is only for informative purposes. This article is not intended to be a medical advise and it is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Please consult your doctor for your medical concerns. Please follow any tip given in this article only after consulting your doctor. The author is not liable for any outcome or damage resulting from information obtained from this article.

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Nov 05 2008

Genital Herpes – Transmission

Genital herpes is a sexually transmitted disease (STD) typically caused by type 2 of the herpes virus.

Genital herpes is one of the most common STDs in the world. It is a viral infection that is spread by close contact with somebody who has herpes simplex virus, or HSV. Any sexually active person may contract genital herpes.

While it is not a life-threatening STD, it is incurable. Symptoms of genital herpes may include: genital itching, small breaks or red patches in the skin around the genitals, thighs or buttocks. It is also possible for you to have no symptoms, but still have the virus.

The initial outbreak, if symptoms occur, consists of flu-like symptoms like fever, headache, and general joint and muscle aches, and possibly genital discomfort. These symptoms may linger for days, during or after which they will notice reddened areas on the genitals which may turn into painful blisters, which eventually burst, crust over and generally to leave sores that will heal with no scarring left behind. The intensity of the initial outbreak varies between individuals, but for some it may be severe and last for up to three weeks if not treated. These symptoms generally quickly clear up with medication.

Genital herpes is spread through direct skin-to-skin, genital-to-genital or mouth-to genital contact. It is usually spread during intimate sexual contact. The virus is more likely to be passed if sex occurs during an active herpes outbreak. Since many people don’t notice the genital herpes signs and symptoms, it is not always possible to detect an active outbreak. It is also possible to spread genital herpes even when no symptoms are present – in an instance known as asymptomatic shedding.

Chance of transmission is greater if there are any breaks in the skin.

Sores in other areas – like the buttocks and thighs – can be just as contagious as those in the genital area, and should be avoided.

During times when there is no outbreak, there is still a slight chance of transmission, even when signs of an outbreak are absent. If you or your partner has a fever blister, it is a good idea to abstain from oral sex because the virus may be passed to the genital area.

Contrary to popular belief, sharing cups, towels or bath water, and toilet seats are not ways genital herpes can be transmitted. Only skin to skin contact with the infected area can pass the virus. Normal activities like cuddling, sharing a bed, or kissing are safe.

A genital herpes diagnosis does not mean that you have to abstain from sex. It does mean, however, that you and your partner should take proper measures to reduce risk of transmitting the virus.

The chance of contracting genital herpes is reduced if latex condoms are used during sexual intercourse. Couples should abstain from sex during herpes outbreaks, because chance of transmission is increased. Engaging in sex during an outbreak actually irritates outbreaks and makes them last longer. In some cases, if both partners have genital herpes, they may agree that condom use is not necessary.

If you or your partner’s outbreaks are frequent or severe, or if the recurrent outbreaks cause increased stress, then treatments that prevent or reduce the frequency of recurrences, should be considered.

Herbal treatments are worth looking into because they consist of compounds found in nature that have been proven to significantly reduce herpes outbreaks.

Dylan Morris ~ Dylan Morris is a freelance writer and supporter of nutraceuticals, natural, herbal treatments for disease control and prevention. Visit http://herpaflor.com/ for more information.

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Stop Herpes Now and From Coming Back For Good by Dr David Hoggs

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Oct 14 2008

Herpes and Relationships

Published by admin under Herpes Dating, Partner Advise

Genital herpes is one of the most common sexually transmitted diseases in the United States. Many people who are infected with HSV-2 are not even aware that they are infected. Most people do not show signs or symptoms from HSV-1 or HSV-2 infection – or the symptoms are very mild.

When signs of genital herpes do occur, they typically appear as outbreaks of blisters on or around the genital or rectal area. The blisters break, leaving tender sores that may take two to four weeks to heal the first time they occur. Another outbreak can appear weeks or months after the first, but it is usually less severe and shorter than the first outbreak. Though the herpes infection remains in the body indefinitely, the number of outbreaks tends to decrease over time.

After a person learns of their genital herpes diagnosis and finds out that it is an incurable, life-long condition, s/he may be concerned about what this means about current or future sexual relationships.

In regards to future sexual relationships, people who have genital herpes can experience normal sexual relationships despite their diagnosis. There are things that an infected person must do to insure that they do not put any future partners at risk of contracting the genital herpes. Keep in mind that abstinence is the only guaranteed way to prevent a sexual partner from contracting herpes.

For casual or short-term sexual relationships, use latex condoms to help lessen the likelihood of contracting genital herpes as well as a wide range of sexually transmitted infections. Avoid direct genital skin-to-skin contact during a herpes outbreak, as this is the time the virus is most likely to be passed on. Wearing a condom will not completely prevent transmission during an outbreak, as the virus may be present on the surrounding genital area.

In regards to a long-term relationships where both partners are knowledgeable of the genital herpes infection and the risk of transmission, for the couple to decide not to use a condom.

In both cases of casual sexual partners and long-term relationships, the issue of how to tell a partner that you have genital herpes arises. It is common to think that any current or future sexual partner will reject you once they learn of your herpes diagnosis; however, most genital herpes infected people find that their partners are supportive of them and appreciate the courage it took to reveal their diagnosis.

If you are diagnosed with genital herpes while in a relationship, your partner may think that this is a sign of infidelity. However, because of the nature of the virus, you could have had it long before your relationship. Or, even still, it is possible that your partner never experienced symptoms from a herpes infection and transmitted the virus to you-and you are one of the few individuals who develop symptoms of the infection. It is best to talk to a physician once you reveal your infection to a partner so that all of these concerns can be addressed.

At any rate, it is important to tell your partner of your condition, it shows them that you are a responsible partner who cares about your sexual health and the sexual health of your partner. Your partner may also choose to be tested.

Regardless of their test results, in order to keep your sex life as normal as possible, you may want to look into treatments that will reduce the frequency, duration and severity of outbreaks, as well as maintain a healthy diet and avoid stressful situations which may trigger outbreaks. The healthier lifestyle you lead, the less genital herpes will be an issue in your sex life.

Dylan Morris

Dylan Morris is a freelance writer and supporter of nutraceuticals, natural, herbal treatments for disease control and prevention. Visit http://herpaflor.com/ for more information.

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Stop Herpes Now and From Coming Back For Good by Dr David Hoggs

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Jun 08 2008

Genital Herpes – Do You Get It If Your Partner Has Cold Sores?

Genital herpes affects many of us. All of us want to protect ourselves. The problem is the anxiety about getting genital herpes if the partner shows no signs, but is a carrier? What if he/she had contacted cold sores in the childhood? Will you get genital herpes? Let us find out.

Genital herpes- basics

Here are few basics about genital herpes. It can be caused by virus type 1 that causes cold sores. Most of the carriers are in a phase when they show no outward sign but shed the virus (asymptomatic phase). After contacting herpes, you will become infected but may show no symptoms for years. Unfortunately you may suspect a different partner when you get the eruption. The earlier one that gave you herpes is only in the memory. Many of us believe that genital herpes is only caused by virus type2. This is not true. Let me put it like this. If you have genital herpes, it is difficult for your partner to get cold sores. But if you have cold sores, your partner can easily get genital herpes.

Genital herpes- about the habit of the virus

The herpes virus behaves in a typical manner. as soon as you contact herpes, the virus begins multiplying. You may get a severe eruption of herpes or a very mild. After treatment the virus goes to sleep. Because of certain reasons, the virus goes back to the skin. The trigger may be- stress, illness, lowered immunity etc. After going back to the skin, the virus erupts again and shows herpes on the skin. It gets treated again and goes back to sleep to return after some time.

Even if your partner shows no signs of herpes, if he/she is an active carrier of cold sores or virus type2, you may get infected. Only screening will tell you about the status of your partner. Please protect yourself from genital herpes. To know more about herpes- click here- Herpes Simplex This article is only for informative purposes.

This article is not intended to be a medical advise and it is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Please consult your doctor for your medical concerns. Please follow any tip given in this article only after consulting your doctor. The author is not liable for any outcome or damage resulting from information obtained from this article.

by: DC Mohatta

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Feb 04 2008

How To Protect My Partners From Herpes?

Published by admin under Partner Advise, Safe Sex

When you or your partner suffer from herpes, it is not an easy challenge to face. In any relationship, trust and honesty are important. If you love your partner, then you must be open to share the truth.

It is important that if you decide to stay together, then both of you must take responsibility to ensure that you continue to enjoy a healthy, intimate live together.

By knowing, it can already help prevent the spread of herpes. Because you can begin to take steps.

There is no way to guarantee that herpes will not spread. But there are ways to help reduce the risks.

First, consult your physician. This is very important as there are different STDs and herpes might not be the only problem. Having full information will help you and your partner.

Check if Valtrex is suitable. It is known to reduce the risk. But again, this needs to be taken in consultation with a physician.

Here are some steps that you can take which will help reduce the risks:

  • Do not have sex when you have an outbreak
  • Do not have sex when you suspect that you are about to have an outbreak
  • Always have protected sex (that is, use a condom)
  • Take your medication (if prescribed)

Never take medication without first consulting your physician.

Additional Reading: Stop Herpes Now & From Coming Back for Good by Dr David Hogg

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